May, 2009

Sunday, May 31st, 2009

Saving Money: Food

We’ve finally discovered a plan that works for us in saving on our food costs.  It doesn’t involve lots of coupons, because that just makes me buy lots of stuff I don’t need.  I have tons of cake mix in my pantry that I may never use because I had coupons.  It doesn’t involve going to 3 different grocery stores to get the stuff that’s on sale.  That’s a waste of my time and gas.  It’s much easier and takes minimal time.

First of all, we purchase 2-3 boxes from www.angelfoodministries.com each month.  This gives us lots of meat to put in the freezer and use throughout the month.  Usually the main box, and generally either a chicken or seafood box.  We really love their new seafood box because it gives us healthy options that we can’t otherwise afford.  We also usually get the fruits & veggies box so this gives us produce at a lower price.  We spend anywhere from $50-$75 depending on what’s available.

Then each Wednesday, my husband looks through the grocery sales papers to find deals on other meats.  We never buy ground beef over $1.69 or chicken breast over $1.99, and we stock up on ground turkey when we find it for $1.99.  There are always good deals to be found…pork loin, beef tenderloin, whole chickens, and other frequently used meats are usually on sale about once every month.  We pick whichever store has the best meat deals that week and stock up on the things we use the most that are on sale.

On Friday or Saturday, we all sit down and make up a meal plan for the next week.  My kids get to provide input so they have a few of their favorite meals during the week which makes them happy, and my husband and I also plan a few of our favorites to keep us happy.  I generally know what meats we have in the freezer so we base everything on that.  I write the main dishes down along with sides and then go through the kitchen to see what we need.  From there I make my list (making sure to include breakfast, lunch, and snack items as needed) and we head to the grocery store.

The grocery store trip typically happens on Saturday or Sunday afternoon.  Everybody in the family goes…my oldest has the list and his job is to keep everything marked off.  He helps us stick to the list by asking “Is that on the list?” every time something goes in the basket and my husband and I also try to hold each other accountable.  This minimizes our impulse buys.

Right now we’re averaging about $90/week in groceries.  Our goal is to drop this down to $75/week so we’re spending $300 a month on groceries.  I am not sure this is really possible with a family of 5, but I’m trying my hardest!

And if you’re curious, here’s this week’s menu.  We’ve got several things going on this week that make dinners a little more challenging than usual, so this is not necessarily what every week would look like.  We’re also heavy on salad as a side dish this week because we got lettuce on sale.

Monday: Frozen pizza and salad.

Tuesday: Taco soup in the crockpot with cornbread.

Wednesday: Bacon wrapped tenderloin with grilled eggplant and corn on the cob.

Thursday: Meatloaf with mashed potatoes and a salad.

Friday: Spaghetti with a packaged Caesar salad and frozen garlic bread.

Saturday: Grilled pork tenderloin marinated in mojo sauce with green beans, black beans, and rice.

Sunday: Hamburgers and french fries.

One of the things that used to mess us up when we made a meal plan was not having the meat thawed when we needed it.  So now I take everything out the day we go to the grocery store and put it in the top shelf in the fridge where it thaws slowly.  So far, this has not led to any problems of stuff thawing too quickly and going bad before we use it.  Breakfast staples are cereal, eggs, and oatmeal or Nutri-grain type bars.  For lunch, we buy sandwich stuff but also eat a lot of dinner leftovers.  All of this has led to drastic reductions in our monthly food bill which really helps our budget in other areas.  As long as we keep it up, we should be able to survive this situation a little bit longer.  And even when it’s over and we’re back in a better place I plan to keep it up so we can use our money elsewhere…like saving for a new car or vacation!

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

More Cloning Talk

Baby V is army crawling.  Yes, she’s only 4 months old but apparently someone forgot to tell her she can’t do that yet.  I’ve tried, but now that she knows how she’s not listening to me.  Apparently, I also crawled at 4 months.  My mom claims it was full out crawling on hands and knees, though.  I’m not sure I believe *that* but it definitely seems like mini-me is following in my footsteps.  She’s also trying to get those knees underneath her which terrifies me.  Maybe it’s a good thing she rarely is allowed to be on the floor?

She also loves to suck her toes.  I think it is so strange to find her with a toe in her mouth, sucking like it’s going to give milk, but she does it!  My mom claims I used to do this, too.  Neither of my boys did this so it’s definitely a weird one to me.

And then there’s her personality.  This girl can charm the socks off of anyone.  If she’s fussing, someone will go check on her and she immediately smiles, giggles, coos, and generally makes herself so adorable that you can’t help but pick her up and love on her.  Clearly she takes after me with this adorable and engaging personality.  (That’s a joke, by the way!)  But seriously, my mom tells me I was very similar.  My dad used to call me effervescent because I was so bubbly and charming.

I can’t wait to see my mom in a couple of weeks so she can see just how much V is doing now, and how similar she is to me as a baby.  Looks like me, acts like me, and I’m sure I’ve said it before…we are in so much trouble in about 13 years!

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

I cared a piter!

Yesterday I was sitting in my office when I heard the most blood curdling scream coming from my 2 year old.  It’s the kind of scream that make you sure you’ll be heading to the emergency room in about 5 minutes.  I was certain he’d fallen and broken a bone or cut off a finger by the sound of it.  I ran over there, prepared for the sight of bones sticking out of his skin or major amounts of blood…but couldn’t immediately figure out what was wrong.  He was standing up, not bleeding, not hurt in an obvious way.  So why in the aitch ee double hockey sticks was he screaming like that???

I asked him what was wrong and, still screaming, he says “I cared a piter!”  Usually I’m pretty good at deciphering his 2 year old speak.  But this one was baffling.  I’m checking him over for injury and finding nothing, so I ask again.  “I cared a piter!”  And he points.  This time it dawns on me…”I’m scared of the spider.”

Only it wasn’t a spider.  It was an ant. (We’ve been battling them for a few days now.)  And apparently it had crawled on his arm when he was laying in the floor playing.  I squished it, but he continued to cry for quite a while in my lap.  He’s freaked out over spiders before, but not to this degree.  I’m not sure where he’s getting it and I really hope he outgrows it, because that scream took a few years off my life!

Saturday, May 23rd, 2009

I am a junkie in need of a fix.

That’s right, I’m addicted.  To what, you ask?  Well, it’s shocking…I am addicted to exercise.  Running and the elliptical have become my new favorite ways to spend a little time away from kids, husband, and responsibilities.  Hot baths, reading a good book, surfing the net, or a little TV time are no longer the ways I choose to spend the 30 minutes before bed or 10 minutes before dinner are ready.  Instead I hop on the elliptical and blast some motivating music through the iPod while I make myself sweat!

I am just as shocked as everyone else by this development.  I have a feeling my husband is wondering who I am and what I did with his wife.  I hurt my knee and have had to take a couple of weeks to just walk and it made me cry.  I’m not entirely sure what has brought about this change.  It may be that my long-time excuse is no longer valid (I told myself that I wanted to have more kids and couldn’t see the point of losing only to get pregnant and fat again.) or that I am just sick and tired of looking/feeling this way.  But I think it has more to do with friends who are supportive and encouraging to exercise with!  I have never stuck to any exercise program for more than a few days, and I’m going on several weeks of consistent activity now.  My knee finally appears to be healed enough to run again and I can’t wait to get out there on Monday and test it out!

Friday, May 22nd, 2009

The cutest thing today…

I had V on my lap because she is really being a velcro baby this morning.  My 2 year old ran up and says “I wan see baby!”  I leaned back a little so he could see her and he blew her a kiss, said “I wub you Biwet!” and ran off as she grinned her sweet toothless grin at him.

That’s why I do this incredibly tough, often frustrating, and extremely tiring job.  Moments like that make my heart melt!

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

Back to School…Summer Registration

Drama (most of which played out on Facebook & Twitter via status changes and comments) was rampant, but in the end I managed to get registered for one class this summer!  I am taking a psychology course as my first step on the road to being a registered nurse.

A week or so ago, I found out that the summer course offerings were very slim this year.  The only ones offered were a computer class (which was my first choice), a math class, and a psych class.  Since I’m limited to distance ed right now, this wasn’t great news.  All were available online, but there was only 1 section available for some of them and everything was full.  I found a substitute class I could take for my math, but it was an extra hour (which meant additional tuition) and the book was more expensive.  So it really wasn’t going to work.  After I threw a drama queen hissy fit, I pouted for a bit and decided I just wasn’t going to even try to take summer classes.  I would save the money I’d budgeted and try to take more classes later on.

And then spaces started opening up in those classes.  And I figured I’d at least go to registration and see if I could get into one of them.  I gopt there before it even started, and there were already a lot of people ahead of me.  As time ticked away, I just knew my classes were going to be full and I was going to be SOL. (That’s sh*t out of luck for those who don’t know.)  When I got in there and told the advisor what I wanted, she shook her head to my 1st two as she checked them, but by some miracle, the psych class was open.  So I’m enrolled, paid for, and I’ve bought my book.

After that was done we hit Walmart for some prescription ibuprofen for my poor knee and a few household items we needed, and then my wonderful husband treated me to a “college student’s lunch” at Taco Bell.  I can’t believe I’m doing this again!  Maybe this time I’ll do a much better job of focusing on classes rather than partying…

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

My daughter, my clone.

As if we needed any more evidence…

I am fairly certain that if I put a picture of me as a baby and a picture of Violet in front of my mom, she’d have a hard time telling which was which.  This child looks just like me.  And she’s recently developed a liking for her left thumb and a blankie fetish.  I sucked my left thumb and carried around a ratty blanket until I was way too old to be doing so!

If she follows the same path I did, I think we’re in big trouble in about 13 years.  Yikes.

Thursday, May 14th, 2009

School Stuff

After carefully evaluating our financial situation and looking over the required courses I have to take for nursing, I’ve decided to take 2 classes this summer rather than the 1 I’d initially planned on.  The good news is that I got credit for 4 classes I took when I got my bachelor’s degree, so there’s a few that I can avoid.  The bad news is that financially I can’t afford to take more than 1 or 2 classes per semester.  So I had to do a lot of shuffling and write up a new plan to make sure I got everything in before I applied for the actual nursing classes.  With any luck, I’ll be able to start those in Fall 2011 and be an RN in Spring 2013.

Now I just have to hope that at least 2 of the classes I feel ready to take now are available online.  It looks like most of the online sections are full, so 2 classes may not even be an option.  I’d forgotten just how frustrating registering for classes can be!

Tuesday, May 12th, 2009

Sidelined.

My knee started hurting Friday.  So I rested, iced, compressed, elevated, and medicated on Saturday and Sunday.  And it felt a lot better!  Until I started my first running interval yesterday.  And each interval got progressively worse.  I had gotten a knee brace to see if that would help and it didn’t.  I’m in a lot of pain today, so I’m thinking I’m sidelined until it heals.  I’m going to keep walking at least, and I may try to do the C25K workouts on the elliptical and see if reducing the impact on it helps any at all.  Based on the little bit of medical knowledge I have, I think it’s a tendon.  When I looked up a website for information everything fit, so I’m relatively sure my diagnosis is correct.  I am really worried that this will cause me to lose my motivation, so I’m more stressed than I probably should be about it!

And speaking of motivation, tonight is the Biggest Loser finale!  I cannot wait to see how they all did!  I’m following Ali Sweeney on Twitter and she tweeted yesterday about their finale rehearsal, saying that everyone looked great.  Stupid me, I scheduled myself to work in the middle of it!  Thank goodness for a DVR.  Now I just need to earn enough money tonight to justify the expense of it!

Monday, May 11th, 2009

Weekly Challenge, May 11

So I’m still behind in finishing last week’s challenge. (And maybe the one from the week before…but I’m not admitting if that’s true or not!)  My life is total chaos right now and I just can’t get my stuff together.  So this one will be easy!

1. Make a meal and double it.  If you make lasagna, do an extra one.  Double a batch of soup or chili.  Or make 2 meatloaves.  Throw the extra in the freezer.  Then when you have a friend in need due to illness, having a baby, death in the family or other hardship you can run it over to them with a bagged salad and some frozen garlic bread and they’ve got a meal ready to go.  Or if you have a particularly busy day, you know there’s something you can make quickly and easily without falling prey to the fast food drive-thru!

2. Find a way for your household to reduce it’s environmental impact.  Whether that be switching to CFL bulbs, making your own environmentally safe cleaners, starting to recycle or recycling more, using cloth instead of disposable for things like napkins and kitchen towels.  Or my personal favorite, switch to cloth diapers. (If you want to try it, I have a dozen infant size DSQ prefolds, a Snappi, 4 Dappi pull on covers and 2 Bummi wraps I can sell you.  No joke.  She has outgrown them and I need the cash to buy some larger ones.  Email me for details if interested. themama at iamthemama dot com)

3. Take an hour or 2 for yourself.  Take a hot bath, get a pedicure, go for a run, or book a massage.  Or whatever sounds like a blissful way to spend some time alone.

Bonus: If there is something you don’t normally do around your house (like mowing or other yardwork, taking out the trash, changing lightbulbs, maintenance, or whatever) do it.  Surprise the person who normally does it with one less thing to do this week.  If you don’t know how to do it, ask them to teach you.  Then you can surprise them another time!

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