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If I had a million dollars…

28 Aug

There has been so much whining about money here lately, hasn’t there? Well, I’m going to do some more of that. Feel free to skip it if you’re sick of it!

So, this being my last pregnancy, I wanted to commemorate it in a couple of different ways. First being a maternity portrait session some time around Christmas…a month before the baby is due when I’m nice and round but not huge and swollen. We did this about 6 weeks before my last child arrived (though it was supposed to be 8 weeks before!) and I have some lovely family photos that I really adore. None of me alone, though. I don’t want anything super wild. No bare belly shots or anything like that…just some nice *professional* (sorry, not Sears or JCPenney!) portraits of me and my husband, me and the kids, and me. To commemorate the last days of my last pregnancy. But financially it is out of the question now and probably will be even if some money comes in before that. We just have too much to buy between now and the baby’s arrival and this is really the bottom of the list when it comes to things we need to spend money on.

The second was to have a 3D/4D ultrasound at Prenatal Peek in Durham sometime in November. We did this last time and it was so amazing! The technology wasn’t widely available with my 1st and though we do have ultrasound videos of him (which I watched last night and cried over!) they are grainy and you can’t see much. These 3D/4D ones are amazing…we could see all kinds of details and when I watched ours last night I cried my eyes out. I relived the entire amazing experience and I’m so sad that I can’t do it again. And just because I can, here’s a short video clip and a photo from that ultrasound.

 

Have you ever had a kidney stone?

27 Aug

Count yourself lucky if you can say no.  I am not one of those people!  I have had 4 lithotripsies, (a surgery where they bust them up via shock waves, it’s non invasive and not particularly terrible unless they don’t break up well and you have to pass large fragments) a cystoscopy under general anesthesia to remove one that was caught in my ureter, a cystoscopy to place a stent, (right before the c-section birth of my last child, so luckily I’d had a spinal!) and one cystoscopy to remove that stent where I had no anesthesia.  And if you don’t know what a cystoscopy is, you can get more info here.  I won’t go into details for the squeamish who may read my blog.  Let’s just say it’s unpleasant and leave it at that.  Not to mention I’ve passed quite a few stones with no intervention whatsoever!

Last night, I started experiencing that unmistakable telltale pain that tells me I have yet another one.  I started guzzling water and then ate some tomatoes and cucumbers in vinegar, then drank the vinegar left in the bowl.  This may sound slightly crazy, but there is some evidence that vinegar may help to dissolve kidney stones that are calcium based, like mine.  If you’ve ever had calcium deposits on a shower head or faucet, you’ve probably used vinegar to remove them, right?  It’s the same concept, and it does seem to work.  A couple of months ago I was experiencing some twinges that made me think I had a stone and immediately started drinking a few tablespoons of vinegar and water every few hours and a day or 2 later passed something that vaguely resembled a stone, but it was very crumbly, for lack of a better word.  Typically kidney stones are like a small piece of gravel you’d find on the ground outside…literally, like a rock!  This was very different.  And it was pain free!

So last night after I took something for the pain and had a warm bath to soothe me as well, I went to bed, expecting a middle of the night awakening in pain, or a bad morning.  Nope…I am pain free and so thankful for that!  I definitely haven’t passed anything yet, so it’s still there somewhere, but at least I’m not hurting anymore.  I’ll report back on whether this natural remedy worked.  One time may be a fluke, but if it happens twice, I’m prepared to call it a success.

And if you come to this later by googling “natural remedy for kidney stones” or something similar, DO NOT do the coke and asparagus thing.  It does not work.  (If you haven’t heard of this one, you drink a six pack of coke in something like an hour, then follow it by eating several ounces of pureed asparagus.  Not only does it not work, but it made me violently ill!)

 

Sitting here with everything and nothing to say.

26 Aug

I have had this window open for a couple of hours now, just trying to decide what to post about. The main thing in my head is the fact that my husband is currently in Asheboro, pitching to a company there in the hopes of picking up some work. I alternate between praying that things go well and feeling like I’m going to throw up from the nervousness.

As for the other stuff bouncing around in my brain, here’s just a sample…

  • With the arrival of the new LUSH store in Raleigh at Crabtree Valley, I’ve finally been able to try a couple of bath bombs and LOVE them. Now I want to try their hair color. The idea of my grays becoming bright red is strangely appealing. Has anyone tried it? Does anyone want to have a LUSH hair color party with me? :P
  • I have a hair appointment scheduled for tomorrow. I am anxious to see what she makes of my badly thinning hair. I’ve never had this problem while pregnant…it usually becomes very thick and pretty. Right now it’s dull, thin, and lifeless. Yuck.
  • Nobody in town will pierce my nose while I’m pregnant. Which doesn’t surprise me, but there goes my fabulous 33rd birthday gift to myself. Oh well! I still plan to have it done, but it may be a little bit longer. I did find some really cool opal nose screws, though!
  • As difficult as 2 year olds can be, this may also be my favorite age. Right now he’s running back and forth from the art table with various pieces of scribbled paper and saying “look, look!” He is SO proud of himself!
  • Both boys have requested a baby sister. I hope they’re not disappointed if it’s a brother instead.
  • Yes, we do know what causes pregnancy. Yes, we wanted another baby. No, we don’t care what your opinion is. Why do people think it’s OK to comment on this?
  • I am excited about the location of the new YMCA, which will open right before the baby arrives. It will be about 5 minutes from our house and I plan to utilize it as soon as I’m cleared for exercise! I just hope our income permits it at that point.
  • With just me and the youngest home today, I think wee’re going to go have lunch at McD’s and then head by Shoppes of Steele Street so I can get some *good* chocolate. Must go do something with my nasty hair and maybe put on some make-up…
 

Bodies by Drowning Pool

25 Aug

My musical taste is really eclectic and extends to pretty much everything except country (spent too much time in Nashville where that’s practically ALL you hear!) and rap.  And honestly, even those are sometimes my music of choice.  But I do love a lot of rock/metal, and this is one song I could listen to over and over again, turned up as loud as it will go!

 
 

Stay tuned!

25 Aug

There may be some funkiness here today…as much as I love my little pink bird, season changes always make me want to look for a fresh new theme for my blog. So instead of setting up a test site, I’m going to do the adjusting live on this one. I’ll get it back to normal ASAP, but in the meantime pretend you don’t see the man behind the curtain, OK?

EDITED: I think I’m done.  If anything isn’t working, let me know!  You may notice I added a verification feature known as captcha on the comments.  I’ve been getting massive amount of SPAM comments lately and I can barely keep up with them.  Hopefully this, in conjunction with the updated Akismet plugin, will cut down on it again.  You don’t have to register or anything…just input a 5 letter word along with the other info when commenting.

 
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